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My spouse and I were woomen down the street the other day when a man in a Bi look for women truck shouted a word from his vehicle: We were not holding hands at the time, so, from my perspective, we weren't overtly displaying to the world what our relationship is to one another.
But Bi look for women he shouted, "Lesbians! It Bu happens that my spouse is a lesbian. But he didn't shout, "Lesbian! He added an "s.
Because there were no Bi look for women people anywhere near us on the sidewalk, I have to assume that he was loudly trying to describe both of us. I'm not a lesbian, but clearly something about either my womwn or the appearance of us two non-hand-holding women together or both made him think that I was. After all, he didn't shout, "Lesbian and bisexual!
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Considering the fact that studies show that twice as many women identify as bisexual than identify as lesbian yes, bi women outnumber lesbians two to onethe odds were just higher that if I wasn't straight, then I was probably bi.
So, what could it be that made Bi look for women assume we were both lesbians? My spouse surmised that it was our hair. We both have pretty short haircuts. But does Bi look for women mean that womej get to have a monopoly on hair length as a signifier of sexual identity?Wife Looking Sex NY Elizaville 12523
If so, I'm envious! I shouted back -- at this point, much too late for him to hear -- "I'll take it!
Sadly, he didn't get to hear my acceptance of his declaration, but it gave my spouse Bi look for women good laugh. Sometimes, that's all that matters Street harassment and violence are no joke, though. But luckily, in this case, the event began and ended with that one word: Nonetheless, the incident got me thinking: Or, more specifically, Bi look for women can someone wear their bisexuality on their sleeve, if people's assumptions about our sexuality are based on things like haircuts?
Especially if those haircuts are also assumed to only belong to monosexuals in this case, lesbians? The only conclusion I could draw is: I think the bi community needs to come together and decide on one hairstyle, and that will be the bi hairstyle.
Then we need Bi look for women be able to advertise the fact woen that is loo, bi hairstyle, so that people can recognize us -- but, of course, never harass Adult seeking nsa Conejos or act violently toward us.
Again, this no joking matter, since research shows that bisexual women are more likely than monosexual lesbian or straight women to experience domestic violence. Wkmen, biphobia has got to go. We'll publicize what the hairstyle looks like.
And we can publicize the idea that if you see two people with that haircut, and you're driving fot them in a pick-up Bi look for women, and you have no intention to harass them but you just feel utterly compelled to shout a word in their direction related Victorville asian sluts your beliefs about their sexual identity, then you should definitely, definitely shout out the word "bisexuals!
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