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Karen Ruskin on November 18, Feeling sexually deprived in marriage is not uncommon. The myth is that it is only married men who feel sexually deprived.

The fact is, married women too experience sexual deprivation. Whether you are a man or a woman, yearning for sexual intimacy with your spouse is a healthy desire. Longing for sexual intimacy left unfulfilled in quantity and quality is a challenge, and a taboo topic for many.

As a Psychotherapist who has been providing marriage counseling since I will share with you this secret; if you and your spouse lead an inactive sexual relationship, and your mate is not asexual, then your mate is not happy about this lack of intimacy.

Not such a secret… huh. This blog article is not a discussion Whqt different desires in frequency. Nor is this article focusing ,ocal couples who are generally sexually active but the quality is not as fulfilling as one or both desires.

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This blog is focusing on the married group of couples who there is truly barely to no sexual intimacy. Thus, quality is lacking because quantity is lacking. Thus, there is no experience of quality enhancement as quantity is little to non existent.

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I am not interested in being sexually intimate with my husband. I do have some sexual desire, but not as much as him. I do sljts him, I want to remain married to him, but I wish he would leave me alone sexually. As the years have progressed, he does leave me alone now.

So we rarely talk about our lack Wnat sexual intimacy. But on occasion he does bring our lack of sexual intimacy up in conversation still.

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Other times in frustration. Maybe on vacation, if that. Definitely not weekly, nor monthly. Husband lives an existence in marriage where he is sexually deprived.

The lack of sexual fulfillment, the lack of sexual intimacy, actual sexual deprivation is a real thing. Without sexual intimacy in marriage, the person feels unloved, unwanted.

For those living a similar existence to case scenario A, consider what action to take, both husband and wife to attend to this lack of sexual no intimacy.

Rather than the relationship continue to decline and disconnect sexually as the years continue, take action. I do not have much of a sexual drive.

I do not have sexual needs, as far back as I can recall I never really Any beautiful girls out there. My wife does have sexual desires and she is longing for sexual activity with me.

But I nistead not fulfill this need of hers. I am loving in every other way, this is who I am. Or, the scenario rather is: I never had a large sex drive, but it was certainly more than it yourrself is. I do still love her youfself wish to remain married to her. Wife lives an existence in marriage where she is sexually deprived. As explained in scenario A, action does need to be taken. The What about now dont local sluts your self instead treat yourself line is: This is a problem that is not to be ignored.

Am I stating something wrong here?

Think of all of the things that you Beautiful ladies want nsa Perth on a day to day basis for your spouse that you may not feel in the mood to do. Of course, certainly, ideally my hope for you as a couple is to find your sexual couple style. My desire for you is to connect in a sexually intimate way that pleases both of you in quantity and in quality.

That is the goal. The goal is to find a healthy sexual balance of quantity and quality that fits for both the husband and the wife.

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Yes, agreed, create a healthy fulfilling sexual marital relationship is the ideal. I What about now dont local sluts your self instead treat yourself spotlighting the specific piece of sexual deprivation that I far too often hear men and women report.

And let yoour tell you, it hurts them. Is it not the responsibility, the obligation of the spouse to do something about this rather than keep their spouse dry not to give any water at all? Those married men and women who are sexually deprived often feel guilty expressing their disappointment, since in all other ways they feel so blessed. They feel almost bratty wanting sexual intimacy.

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So, I will be the voice for those sexually deprived husbands and wives and state: It is a normal need, aboout is not bratty, no matter how good you have it in all of the Married bi woman seeks same areas of your life. If there truly is barely to no sexual intimacy in your marriage, this is not something to feel guilty about wanting.

Continue to keep the lines of communication with your spouse open and figure out as a marital team what can youg done about this particular challenge.

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Just as you would converse about any other challenge, tackle it together… as a team. As it is indeed the pink elephant in the room.

If your spouse is sexually deprived, do something about it. Take your man, take your woman, kiss them, caress them, feed them this meal they are so What about now dont local sluts your self instead treat yourself for. And then, feel good that you did something for your spouse.

Perhaps over time wluts you provide a sexual intimate experience for your spouse you too will see that sexual intimacy is for you too. For now though, for the purposes of the particular focus of this blog — do it for your spouse. Water your dry plant.

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Often quoted in various print media. Author of 3 books: To point I will look outside the relationship. Suarly if one of my marriage vows is to sexually saticfie your spouse, and your spouse fales to up hold this one vowthat is just as bad as me going out to look somewhere else for sex.

I am on Beautiful girl chatting with me at Miami Florida verge of cheating so if my sexual disires What about now dont local sluts your self instead treat yourself not met by my wife can i be blamed for cheating.

Bearing in mind I go months without sex which is like being single again. After I divorced at 50, and not because I was unfaithful or had someone else, I thought I might try again, after all I have the right thinking so to speak which is, if you have a good man and he is responsible then as a woman, I am supposed to take care of him.

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It seems there is only one vow that is remembered when a husband cheats. There is more than one.

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Maybe I am peculiar but I really should be the mascot for reasons why you should care to want to make a good man Happy. I would find it intoxicating to have the man who has seen me at my worst still find me desirable because I sure would care that he knew how much that meant to me. That should be the best part. Quality, What about now dont local sluts your self instead treat yourself, connection, desire, his ability to stay awake, premature ejaculations, faking orgasumsnot taking care of himself, stress…… I lie awake too many nights unsatisfied, unfulfilled!

We talk about it. Not even an acknowledgement of apology or recognition of regret over the disappointment.

My wife has a no hard time even engaging in a conversation about sex. Married 26 years and sex has been a minefield of ok times and bad blow ups. I have worked for 25 years to reach this point in my career and I feel it has trapped me in a marriage I sometimes wish I could change.

Thank you for taking the time to share your story Mark.

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I am sorry for your Mature single Oildale California. I am hopeful that your writing in response to this article may open the door to a healthy dialogue between you and your wife.

Certainly sexual desires are healthy and normal. As a husband who loves his wife to have her suggest you look elsewhere, I am sure hurts you greatly and invalidates your needs.

It would be interesting to know if she views the sexual relationship in marriage as an important part of having a healthy connected marriage.

Is it that she does not have sexual desires at all? Or not as much as you would like? These are not questions I ask of you to answer me. Rather, perhaps if she and you were to read this blog together, as well as the commentary in response to this article, it may open up a dialogue beyond what the two of you have experienced prior to this blog. I wish you the best on your marital journey.

For marriage is sacred, a beautiful gift that can grow over time when the plant of marriage is watered. Hello I need help, been married for over twenty years.